What Do I Want From You?

We all have expectations of one another in our relationships, whether it’s with a spouse, friends, family, or coworkers. No matter who we are in relationship with, each of us can benefit from taking the time to truly ask ourselves what we want from them. When we make our expectations known to another, we can create much healthier relationships.

Express Your Expectations

When we know what we want from people in our lives, it’s only natural to want them to know as well. But expectations go beyond simply making sure the other person knows what’s expected of them. When it comes to expressing your expectations, it’s important to do so in a respectful way. Verbalizing your expectations clearly and directly, without making assumptions, and avoiding blame and judgement can help create an atmosphere of mutual understanding and respect.

Listen to Their Expectations

When someone expresses their expectations to us, it’s just as important reciprocate by truly listening to what they are asking for. We can all benefit from taking the time to reflect on what others need from us, as well as taking necessary steps to meet those expectations. By considering someone else’s expectations, and both listening to and asking honest questions, we can foster stronger and more positive relationships.

When it comes to the expectations we have of people in our lives, the most important thing is to openly and clearly communicate those expectations and listen to the expectations they have of us. By determining what each one of us needs from one another, we can create an atmosphere of mutual understanding and respect.