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What Does it Mean to be Bisexual?
The LGBT (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender) acronym may be seen in conversation on a regular basis, but what does it actually mean to be bisexual? Bisexuality is often confused with pansexuality, and the two have distinct differences. Becoming familiar with the signs of bisexuality, as well as what it means to actually identify as bisexual, can help LGBT people and allies find acceptance and understanding in important relationships.
Understanding the Definition of Bisexual
The most basic definition of bisexuality is that a person has the capacity to be attracted to and form relationships with both sexes. As the American Psychological Association’s definitions suggests, bisexuality is a romantic and/or sexual attraction to people of any gender. It is important to note that bisexuality is an umbrella term, and can include many different perspectives, attractions and lifestyles.
In recent years, conversations around LGBT identities have developed to encompass gender identity and not just sex assigned at birth. This is important to understand when considering attractions, as some people may be drawn to individuals regardless of gender binary.
What Being Bisexual Looks Like
For some individuals, the bisexual identity is fluid and changes over time. This means for many individuals, an attraction to either sex is not mutually exclusive. This means someone may identify as bisexual despite having a monogamous relationship with a partner of the opposite sex. Just because you are not actively acting on your attractions to multiple sexes, does not change your identification as bisexual. Common signs of being bisexual include:
• Being drawn to people without regards to gender.
• Feeling that emotions, not just physical attraction, can be present towards multiple sexes.
• Accepting that sexuality is fluid and changing over time.
• Feeling connected to the bisexual community in some way.
• Being able to recognize bisexual attractions in yourself.
How to Support a Bisexual Friend or Family Member
When it comes to supporting the bisexual lifestyle, there are a few things to keep in mind. First and foremost, respect the individual’s identification of themself. It is important to never “out” a bisexual person to family or friends, since this could put them at risk. Additionally, it is important to listen to their experiences, and understand that bisexuality is not just a “phase” or something to be “cured.”
Finally, it is important to accept their relationship choices regardless of gender. A bisexual individual may choose to only date one gender and be completely satisfied with this decision, so it is important to not judge or try to change their mind.
Conclusion
Overall, understanding what it means to be bisexual is an important part of embracing a LGBT person into your life. Being able to recognize and accept a person’s sexuality helps to create an inclusive and understanding atmosphere. By being aware and educated on the signs of bisexuality, friends and family can help create a safe and open-minded world for all.